Ti gong weeps,
For love doesn’t keep.
Rain pours down,
As feelings get drown.
Man down beer,
For he miss his dear.
Never dare ask,
Never will last.
爱人好还是被爱好？
这个问题对很多人来说应该不会很陌生吧！有时后当我闭上眼睛时，想想过去爱情的甜蜜，的温暖，的开心，我嘴角会不知觉的上扬。当两个人深深地爱着对方时，彼此的默契与情连是多么的美好！当你伤心时，有人会送花给你，做你最爱吃的便当给你，唱你们的歌给你，那种感觉是多么的好。被他人疼爱的感觉就相小时候被其他人欺负，跌倒了，放声大哭时，母亲会跑上前来抱着我抚摸着我的头，说着安慰我的话来平息我忐忑的心情。母亲的爱，父亲的爱，朋友的爱，男女朋友的爱，都有着相似感。 它们都能让我们感到很温馨。接受他人的爱很简单，伸出手就能了。但是如果要一个人付出爱情，尝试去爱一个人，这可是一个难度相当有挑战性的事。因为害怕对方不能，不敢，不会，不想接受你付出的爱，而长久的迟疑，发愁，考虑，不知所挫。就因种种的理由，你就只会默默地暗恋着她。。。暗恋着一个人是辛苦的，是寂寞的！如果你不想天天过着寂寞孤独的生活，最好不要跌入暗恋陷阱。
Valentine’s Day
Once again. It’s around the corner for this significant day again. But this year is a bit different from the last 3 for me…
anyway, this is the occassion of love, passion, gifts, $$, reservations at restaurants, expensive flowers and many other things. So how does a single man like me now is going to spend this day? hmm.. i totally have no idea. it’s been a while since i last spent this day alone.
Vaguely, I think I used to spend it with my friends and buddies (all singles!!). We would hang out at strange places, drink, coz the WHOLE orchard road would be crowded. Small little girls will come to you and put forth a stalk of rose into your face to ask u to buy…. hopefully for a girl who’s already with you or you are going to meet later.
guys out there, will you buy?
i dunno u.. but for the last many years. i have not bought any. hee. i still like big bouquets. they look more beautiful aren’t they? but sometimes, just a simple stalk of sunflower is also very nice.
and wat about presents? buying them has always been a big headache. guys always trying to be practical. but remember… getting a female razor or watch or pen usually dun work.
personally, i prefer to make some small little things for my the one i love. dun have to be anything complicated. a simple card or little gift also can show your effort. and ladies out there.. dun think that it’s easy for us to do a small gift or card! coz with our legs-liked hands, it’s really difficult! hee
time left isn’t much. so if you haven’t got the presents or made the reservations, start wreaking your brain and pick up the phone liaoz… All the Best.
真爱
“爱一个人不一定需要跟她在一起。”
这句话应该不会陌生吧！我们常常会听人说这句话。但是如果不能在一起，又何必对她存有爱意呢？
当你爱着一个人的时候，而你又不能和她在一起，那种感觉是非常痛苦的。有些人会把它当着是一种温馨的幸福。但对我而言，那是一种伤心的单恋。或许他们曾经有过一段使人无法忘怀的恋爱。。。或许他们曾经轰轰烈烈地爱过一场。。。或许他们曾经有过共同的目标、愿望。。。或许，或许。。。
重要的不是或许，是“曾经”。 曾经就是过去。过去了的事，又何必重温旧梦呢？旧梦不一定永远是甜美的。很多时候，回想起旧梦是可怕的。因为你会突然发现，你失去了什么似的。不去想的话，伤口还有可能会慢慢的复原。
但是很多时候，你越不去想，她的影子越会若隐若现地出现在你的面前。痛苦，痛苦。
虽然很痛苦，但是有时又会害怕忘记她。“时间能够冲淡一切”。但是，冲淡了，生活又回到平淡无波澜的起点。心灵上又会开始感到空虚，无奈。有时会尝试去做些一向都没办法做的时。这么以来，至少能够短暂的有着平静的心情。
如果你对一个人动了真爱，你就要有心里准备。恋爱开始后是非常开心，兴奋的。但是如果结果不是想像中的那样，痛苦就会开始浮现。
但是，我们也不能因为害怕受到伤害，就不去爱。不付出真爱。因为不管你有过多少的伤心故事，或是接下来还会面对心碎的结局，只要你相信会有美好的结果。总有一天，那甜蜜的爱情也会出现在你的生活里。
爱情篇
当你暗恋着一个人的时候，那是多么痛苦的。
当你爱着一个人的时候，那是多么幸福的。
当两人相爱着的时候，那是多么美满的。
当两人厌倦了在一起的乏味的时候，那是多么可惜的。
当只是一方起了厌倦之心的时候，另一方会多么的憎恨。
憎恨另一方，憎恨自己。
为什么当初就不多努力一些，让感情多姿多彩一些。
为什么没有早一点揪出害虫，消灭瘟疫。
当一方放弃了一段美好的感情，去寻找她心中所说的“对相“时，那是正确的选择吗？
而她放弃的是一个深深地爱着她的男人，深深地信赖这美好的感情。
她会做出真确地选择吗？抛弃他。
他会做出真确地选择吗？放弃她。
他们会做出真确地选择吗？舍弃一段彼此曾经守护着的爱情。
又有谁会知道答案呢？
随缘吧！人生里发生的一切，不都是《主》的安排吗？
而当我们面对着挫折的时候，那不都是恶魔在做怪吗？
《主》是不会让我们伤心痛苦的。
我们生命里所发生的一切，都是为了使我们能够迈向更美好的憧憬。
对！是！YES!
一切都会有句号。一切的开始都会有终点。
要爱就轰轰烈烈的去爱。
不然，当焚烧烈火被扑灭时，再来哭泣，那又何苦呢？
～金帛 （2006年11月29日）
Manhood is Bitter in our Times
What’s wrong with the world now-a-daes? In the past, there’s only girls crying because guys rejected them, dumped them, cheated on them, ignored them… but the world now seems to have changed!!
or am i still living in the old times? hmmm… 95% of my guy friends all have suffered at least 1 relationship breakup which the ger initiated. and only a tiny 5% of them dump gers!! hmmm…. and guys are really emotional creatures. don’t say that guys have no feelings and cruel. we man now are poor souls.
myself is a typical example. “The feeling is no long the same, ” she said.
i got hit so bad that i’m now in semi-coma… no idea how to move on…
“Everything that has a beginning has an end.” ~ Oracle of Matrix
It’s just that in life, the end might seem inappropriate to mankind, but bear in mind, God has them on path and everything that has happened is because He has somehting better for you.
my God is still good man, good God. he’ll see me thru all these. yeah!! Amen.
i was feeling guilty for missing church services for the last 2 years. last Sunday was the first time i return to New Creation Church. The messages Pastor Prince delivered was awsome. “You cannot put your complete trust and beloeve on people. But you can on Jesus.”
It’s an anointing to realise that when a relationship is not build on the foundation of God, it bounds to fumble and tumble. Dating is no longer the game we should play. Courtship is the ‘game’ we now play.
Now that i’m ‘free’, suddenly i realise that my friends are all along by my side. People started calling me, messaging me, email me to console me to tell me how much God loves me. These friends, brothers and sisters, THANK YOU. 谢谢。ありがとございます。
You guys out there have been good to me. I thank you.
